5. Utilize Compliments
Individuals with BPD are not used to compliments that are receiving. To determine trust and impact in your spouse’s life, complimenting your lover even for small things they are doing which can be noteworthy may shock both you and get a way that is long.
You could utilize compliments to reward good behavior, such as “I’m sure you had been consumed with stress yesterday, you managed it surely well,” or “we noticed how you have actually stopped yelling at me personally.”